Ageism: An Insidious Disease
Ageism is an insidious disease faced by a majority of older Americans.
It is implicit when newspaper columnists ask whether a candidate is too old to serve effectively. It is explicit when a young doctor says aches and pains are to be expected "at your age." It is devastating when an employer badgers you into accepting early retirement and hires a younger person to take your place-at a far lower salary. And, ageism is life-threatening when politicians suggest rationing health care for the elderly.
Almost everyone over 60 has been bruised by ageism in some way, including the day-to-day mindset of our culture. They're fighting back by forming pressure groups and by asserting themselves in their choice of doctors, stores, products, political leaders and social activities. The demographics of the future are inexorable.
In 2030, according to the U.S. Census Bureau, one in five Americans will be over 65; and by the middle of the 21st Century, 18 million Americans will be over 85. A young country that has always made of joke of old age must come to terms with it. Part of that means changing the terms with which the American language characterizes the old: frail, feeble, wrinkled, gaga, doddering, senile, crone-like, out of date, withered, fuddy-duddy, old biddy, old lecher, old fool.
People who are too polite to mock the elderly often patronize them instead. "Young lady" is no compliment to a woman over 65. Older people are also subtly infantilized by being referred to sweet, little, cute and dear.
Up to now, ageism has not been a hot topic, except to people affected by it. The very fact of society's indifference diminishes the older citizen. The psychological mindset that infantilizes, patronizes or ignores everyone who has lost the first flush of youth leaves millions of older Americans feeling denigrated and useless.
When young workers are promoted and older workers are discarded, the impact is immeasurable. Significantly, the stereotypes of slow-thinking older adults upon which these hiring decisions are based have often been proved wrong.
The hope that ageism may be at least lessened, if not stamped out, lies in the sheer numbers of the huge baby boom generation whose advance guard has just turned 50. Alert, active, vigorous maturity may yet be given its due...by necessity.
Aljean Harmetz, in "New Choices," 9/96
Resources: Upcoming Meetings & Workshops
In-Reaching to Diverse Audiences and Communities December 12-13, 1996,
Cooperative Extension Facility, Kentucky State University, 400 E. Main St., Frankfurt, sponsored by the National Center for Diversity. Registration: $150; contact Center at (502) 227-5904.
Cultural Conflict: How to Reduce It! January 17-18, 1997; at
Hotel Park,
Tucson, AZ, sponsored by University of Arizona National Center for Neurogenic Communication Disorders. Registration: $150 for professionals; $75 for students. Contact: Jody Wood, (520) 621-1821.
Understanding Learning Styles to Enhance Teaching and Program
Development
January 23-24, 1997, Cooperative Extension Facility, Kentucky State University, 400 E. Main St., Frankfurt, sponsored by the National Center for Diversity. Registration: $150; contact Center at (502) 227-5904.
Five-State Multicultural Conference March 20-21, 1997, Garden City, KS,
sponsored by Kansas State University Extension Service and other local
government and college units. Contact Carol Young, (316) 275-9164 or
cyoung@oznet.ksu.edu.
Quote of the Month
"While it's worrisome that Americans still seem resistant to the idea of women in the workplace, this attitude may be the product of hard-won experience. Romanticism about being an executive has been tempered by 20 years of experience with the glass ceiling. In a working world that features cut-throat competition, downsizing and sexual harassment, to many women, the notion of life at home with the kids may sound attractive." Lisa Kalis
"Doing diversity work is like hypertext: there are lots of levels. It's like playing certain games-what level do you want to play at? You can always move on to another level. You need to remind people of that so they don't settle for the lowest level. Too many programs define diversity so narrowly that they don't give people the opportunity to go higher, deeper, further. They think they're finished when they've only finished one round of play."
Harris Sussman