Molly (to server): "I want the Hamburger lunch special."
Server: "OK"
Refugio: "I'll take the lunch special too. And I'd like my hamburger cooked well done."
Molly (to server): "What's the *default* way you cook the hamburgers?"
(Server looks at Molly confused)
Refugio (explaining to server): "You know, the normal way."
Now she understood what I said, once my fellow computer geek explained it to her.